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[quote]Originally posted by Leegeta:
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">not mad per se, more like disappointed that i wasn't involved in the decision making process [img]eek.gif[/img]Quote:
Originally posted by virtualNYC:
2.mad at her? only if she didn't let me pick it out---
Great....
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Alright, for those of you who are married/ Have a girlfriend/boyfriend, or just wanna pretend that you do (lol) this question regards to "private" stuff...
How would you feel if your girlfriend/wife bought a "toy" (if you get my drift when i mean "toy") and asked you if it was OK just to use it for fun, not for when she is alone, but for when you guys are together, to try out something new and make things just a little more interesting, and more fun.
Would you be mad at her? or would you be supportive? I really would like to hear all of your honest opinions, thank you!!
depends...
if it's a 12" dildo my wife wants to cram up my arse, she'll be looking for a new home right quick...
if she asked me to use said dildo on her, meh...why not. I can read a book at the same time. [img]wink.gif[/img]
I hope i don't get in trouble for this topic (please if you do not want this topic on board i will delete it right away!)
But Peeker, not so much a dildo, just a simple innocent vibrator that's 7"...would you be mad? [img]redface.gif[/img]
in me, or her?
that's the catch.
lol In me!! whoops, i mean, in the girl [img]wink.gif[/img]
not a problem in my eyes. I mean...well... I don't want a dildo in my eyes.
but I'd have no problem with my wife bringing one along. for herself.
I think it basically comes down to what type of relationship you have with your partner.
If it is fun, and they are part of it, then it all depends on their attitude toward such things. I think major problems would come in to play if it was used/meant for times when you are not together. That can bring up feelings of inadequacy and lead to other issues.....
I don't think a clear cut answer to this one can be given as there is a major human factor, but as for my wife and I - won't say anything definite, but I don't think that would be a problem.
I see np with it i get off seeing the woman getting off on what im doing to her.
I think toys can add spice to love making.
But not everytime though, just every now and then, or i might start to get jealous of that toy. [img]biggrin.gif[/img]
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*EDIT* what i meant to say, in answer to your questions---1.no problem with "toys"---2.mad at her? only if she didn't let me pick it out---3.completely supportive [img]graemlins/pizza.gif[/img]
<font color="#cd6600" size="1">[ April 08, 2004 12:37 AM: Message edited by: virtualNYC ]</font>